Are you feeling crazy right now as your Ram partner is on his ‘ignoring’ spree?
Is it true that he is really pulling away from you or just focusing on other matters?
We are going to find out the reasons for the question: ‘Why Aries man ignores you?’
Keep track of the info in this article to see whether he will come back or he already lost his interest in you.
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Is Your Aries Man Acting Distant?
Does the Aries male tend to ignore the woman he likes?
Ruled by Mars planet, a person whose birth date falls between March 20th and April 19th is usually frank about what he feels and thinks. Dating with the Ram is unlikely to be a tame affair. If Aries man is totally into you, he will make sure that you have the time of your life in his company.
This is the guy who is brimming with energy and passion when falling in love.
In case you discover he becomes distant with you, there are two primary situations – either he has not been interested in you or he is not ready to pursue a serious relationship. Basically, he does not know how to handle his feelings and often acts first before thinking.
Is it normal when Aries man acts distant?
Actually, this man will come back!
According to the negative qualities of Aries, he’s probably just doing his own things deeply; later, he would call you and explain. It’s totally normal for him to pop in and out. You don’t need to wait for him; instead, invest your time to do whatever you want and enjoy your single time.
Is Your Aries Man Interested…or Not?
You are just dating an Aries man, and the truth is: being with him is really fun and has no dull moments at all.
However, you may get confused sometimes if experiencing a little back and forth from this intense guy. He seems to be very sweet one day but may become hot-tempered on the next day – his moody behavior frustrates you because you don’t know what you’ve done to him.
Is he no longer interested in you once he pulls away?
Let’s find out the truth:
1. Impulsive behavior
To an Aries, he only thinks about the consequence after taking actions.
If he wants something, he has to do whatever it takes to achieve it. So he’s likely not that into you once he displays his disappearing acts.
When the Aries male really likes a woman, he will approach her quickly but later will regret that he didn’t take things slow – this is the reason for his pulling-away act. He may be passionate at the initial stage of the relationship; nevertheless, he will realize that his partner is not like what he thought.
This guy needs to be patient, or he will keep creating problems.
2. Testing you
Not all, but there are several Aries guys tend to play games with the woman he has feelings for as he needs to know if she is exactly what he’s looking for.
Don’t be surprised if your Aries man is so affectionate but then suddenly ignore you. Indeed, he just wants to test if you will stick around him no matter how he is; in addition, he probably comes up with different situations to see your reaction. If you are unable to handle him, then he will get the signal that you’re not a good fit for him.
Sometimes this Aries male acts jealous also!
Most importantly, he requires his freedom even when you two are dating; hence, respect his privacy or he will run away.
When an Aries man disappears, just let him be!
3. Cold side
Women often blame the man for doing his own stuff and not giving her enough attention, and then she just jumps to the conclusion that he has no interest.
Being with Aries man, you have to accept the fact that he will do whatever he wants without explaining anything. There’s a moment he focuses only on his private space in which he can accomplish all of his unfinished projects or simply rethink of what just happened.
He could ignore your texts, not make returning calls, or even disappear completely.
How to Get Your Aries Man Back?
Is there any good tip to stop this guy from ignoring?
Getting your Ram partner to return is quite difficult. Why?
As one of the Fire signs in the zodiac, he is definitely irresistible, charming to the opposite sex. In love relationship, he tends to be romantic and passionate with a flair for the dramatic that any woman would miss.
Before trying to bring him back, make sure it is the right move as he’s famous for being clingy, possessive, and overwhelming. Don’t be too pushy as this guy needs his own time and space; yet, he will return if still loving you and strongly having feelings for you.
When will Aries man come back?
- In the first few weeks after he starts ignoring you, you should not call, email, or text him anything. Ignore him yet do not disappear totally. He will feel the need to dominate any situation; and if he wants you back, he will get in touch with you. Otherwise, nothing can change his mind.
- Pay attention to what he says when both of you finally sit down to talk.
- Be patient and listen carefully, especially when Aries is expressing his emotions. Let him express his feelings and make sure he understands that you’re fine with his decisions.
- Try to keep the conversation light, make him laugh, and do things that attracted him to you in the first-time meeting.
Take time to evaluate your relationship.
Make use of your ‘me time’ to look at what has gone wrong between you and your partner, and immediately take corrective action to save your love life!
Final Words
No matter which perspective you look from in this situation, the Aries male always yearns to do what he wants, and this ends up stirring some conflicts between him and his partner.
His impulsive act often makes the woman feel like she’s neglected, unloved, and uncared.
If you ask me how to deal with an Aries man pulling away, then sadly the only way is to leave him in his own space for several days; after that, you should call him out for a serious conversation. Ask him how he truly feels about the relationship. You must make him split things out at all cost or he will never tell.
Make sure your Aries man does not disappear for too long.
Leave your comment below if having any question about this topic!
Amrita says
I have a Aries bf or ex bf I am not sure what to call him at this point…… he is completely ignoring me and it’s driving me insane what to do?
Reid Suarez says
Hi Amrita,
Give him space, don’t push him to talk to you. Just stay patient.
He probably doing that silent treatment, to see you react to him not talking to you. At least he is not a Scorpio, because you would wait longer after pushing him. He may be testing you. He is still interested. You should wait if you really want to be with him. Don’t try to make him jealous when he is ignoring you to get his attention.
Sincere!
yo arian female advicer, but doesn't truly believe on astro anymore. says
as an aries female, actually, *yeah we are different, or everyone is different, i do have 3 aries female friend, and 1 aries male friend, though almost an acquaintance)
actually, they just want to have freedom, im sure what they’re doing right now, is doing other things. basically more like a freedom… sorry, im just checking what i used to do before… there is no such thing as test… if i where you just relax, and do your stop, dont be clingy, even aries females hate those who are. though, i heard males are more prone to cheat, but like i said everyone is different.
what matter is, the most important thing is the connection… that even if you guys are not talking, you know… once he finds out you are talking with another, the cheating starts. its like saying, you aren’t the only one who is attractive… basically, its not about the zodiac when it comes to this, most cheaters are actually insecure people, they want to feel attractive, cause u dont give it to them. that’s what i know.
LeeLee says
I’m dealing with the same thing since June 2017. I had never been with an Aries and fully wasn’t as he wasn’t a local. Anyway I felt his wonderful aura and even though he was distant towards the end of our little fling it was still there. Any who. I messed up called, texted, etc once he left and it’s been what 5 months and nothing. I respect his wishes of him doing what he’s doing and wanting what ever or who ever and that’s all I can do. Let them do them. You do you. Move on. If their meant to be in your life they will be.
Reid Suarez says
Yes, LeeLee…it’s much better to move on. When a door closes, another door opens. Why don’t you have to waste your time waiting for someone that you know he will not come back to you?
Find a good Aries that truly loves you!
Kay says
I’ve a friendship with an Aries man he has distanced himself from me .we still talk but not as much and when we have words he doesn’t block me on anything anymore then we end up talking again .he says he is thinking about coming to visit me I’ve backed off a bit to give him some time to work things out .so not sure we’re it is going
Reid Suarez says
Just let things progress naturally, Kay!
howdy sukers says
just friends for now… that is what it is. meaning, for us, or the aries male, its more like…. the same thing, we dont know where this will go…
Evelyn Chapman says
I have a Aries bf ,I am not sure what to call him at this point…… he is completely ignoring me and it’s drives me crazy .
Please , what do i do
Thank you ,
Evelyn
I am a female sagittarius. Im dating a aries man. I am not a liar. I chose to not be called one constantly. . But a mt later he’s back. What to expect from this aries man? I never lie nor cheated on him but let him tell it, its a hold different story. I tried to give him his space but he never wanted tht. He wanted to always be around & under me. He say I’m different. Which I chose to be. But he also say he loves me & tht I’m his center. He always accusing me of lying & cheating but we use to be in eachother presence @ all times. Up & dwn. I’m bout ready to throw my hands up .
Thank you ,
Evelyn
September 29, 2020 at 9:22pm
So Im in a long distance relationship with this Aries man and we have our ups and downs every week. It seem like we both had issues with cheating and me being a sagittarius
took things very deeply. I think he still wants me but we fought and it’s been serverl hours since we talk, he use to have me on all his stuff like tictok account , im blocked his Instagram account , im blocked , his Twitter account
, im blocked on there to and I think, he is talking to other females , but use to he well always say that he is single and looking for a future wife,
but he tells me tht im his girlfriend and he wants me to be his wife . And tht he realky lives me . But, i don’t know
anymore , he ignores me alot , and he use to he can’t wait for us to meet and be together
? I’m gonna let him think about our relationship and if he truly wants me then he should find a way to contact me right?
I just need some advice on what to do ? Cause we both really care for eachother. .
But ,,,,, i just don’t know anymore.
Thank you ,
Evelyn .
Quesha Morgan says
I am a female capricorn. I was dating a aries man. I am not a liar. I chose to not be called one constantly. I started dating him in June of 2015. Every wknd he call it quits. But a mt later he’s back. What to expect from this aries man? I never lie nor cheated on him but let him tell it, its a hold different story. I tried to give him his space but he never wanted tht. He wanted to always be around & under me. He say I’m different. Which I chose to be. But he also say he loves me & tht I’m his center. He always accusing me of lying & cheating but I’m in his presence @ all times. WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THIS ARIES MAN. We’re like the stock brokers. Up & dwn. I’m bout ready to throw my towel in on this one. Smh.
Reid Suarez says
Hi Morgan,
He’s never going to believe you. He’s got this thought in his head that he’s not good enough for you, and sooner or later someone’s going to steal you away. It’s a confidence issue, and there’s really nothing you can do about it.
I suggest you just end things. Stay single for a while out of respect for his feelings. And then move on to someone who isn’t paranoid about what you do and where you are.
Best regards!
Salvador says
So I was in a long distance relationship with this Aries man and boy did we have our ups and downs every week. It seem like we both had issues with cheating and me being a cancer took things very deeply. I think he still wants me but we fought and it’s been a week and I think I’m gonna let him think about our relationship and if he truly wants me then he should find a way to contact me right?
Rosie says
I’m a Capricorn woman getting to know an Aries man. We have been talking for about 5 months now. In the beginning he would always call, text and come around. Then we got intimate. Which I think was a bad idea. Now he doesn’t come around as much. I text he doesn’t respond till days later. We will go 2 weeks without seeing one another. I told him I would leave him alone. Cause I feel we are no longer closer just growing distant. And me messaged me right away apologizing that he has so much going on and he still wants me in his life. Then after that things are still the same. Distant growing more between us. What gives. I’m ready to say forget it. Why does he pull me in with one hand then another push me away?? So hard to figure out.
Rosa
Shenita says
I have been in relationship with Aries man for six months he told me he would never leave me . Our sex life , friendship seemed to be totally amazing. Then one day he just disappeared one me haven’t heard from him in 3 weeks. I am in shock and sick.
Mitali Tripathi says
He came back or not
autumnfalls says
Need advice.
Been with my Aries man, for 6 months. In the past month, we have had to deal with the long distance, as we are in the process not moving from Ga to Vegas. He is in Vegas.
We talk every day.
I (Scorpio 10/25), usually, have a hard time communicating, opening up, being weak. I really fell hard for him. I have put forth more effort, than ever, to communicate how he is making me feel and what I would like from him. He is NOT listening. I explained it took a lot of courage, for me to be vulnerable to him, by opening up.
Still nothing. I have a ton more detail!! If needed, I can lay everything out. But, can someone, anyone, please HELP!! How do I get him to put into our relationship, of not to match what I have put in, but at the very least five just a little bit if what I have been specific about, in some way…??
If deeper details are needed, I can go through everything, privately, the signed name below, and “G” for email, (please put it together.) Just let me know. (It will probably help, better, knowing exact conversation (s).
Thanks
autumnfalls1985
Lori Briley says
I’ve had an on & off lover/friend relationship with an Aries man for 18 years. We have gone 2-3 years with no contact whatsoever & then out of the blue he would contact me & we would get together, hang out, have sex & part ways until the next time. We were both in relationships with others every time we got together, but it always just felt so natural & right. Recently, he told me that he’s loved me for years & always will. I kinda panicked at first but didn’t show it. Anyway, we started spending a lot more time together & the sex was amazing. Things were going great & we even talked to the manager of his cousins apt complex about getting an apt together. The next day he was acting shady & I discovered he was in the company of another woman while he was ignoring me…..this all happened in real time. I caught him trying to be sneaky & deceitful towards me& saw proof that at the exact same time he was with the other chic. I’ve always known he has female friends & even sometimes hangs out with women he knows want him…. It never bothered me bc he was always honest with me about it. This time he wasn’t & I felt so wounded that I unleashed on him & accused him of using me to satisfy his ego, of not loving me but loving the way I made him feel as a man & accused him of having sex with that woman. He was very upset & has given me the cold shoulder since. I’ve seen him twice since our ‘fight’….. The first time he gave me a hug & kissed my forehead. Second time we chatted for 15-20 min & I told him I know I wounded him by doubting him & that I did it purposely to push him away bc I was feeling too strongly for him & got scared. He just looked at me for a minute, grabbed my boob but stopped himself, gave me a kiss & told me he loves me. I believe that he does & I love him so deeply. I’ve never told him the true depth of my feelings bc I don’t want to overwhelm him. He constantly says he’s not ready for a relationship but also confessed that the only woman he would ever even think of marrying is me. I hope I didn’t kill that love bc what we share is truly is so unique & amazing. Btw, I’m a Scorpio
Venessa says
Hello,
In a relationship with an Aries man,our main argument centred around him not making time to see me in person but always communicating otherwise.Now all he does is communicate thru whatsapp no calling?what should i do?
Reid Suarez says
It means he is hiding behind online chatting and feels safer this way. It means he thinks he can actually get to know you properly (even better) by messaging than by meeting up face to face. This isn’t mature and you should tell him that this isn’t the right way to get to know someone. Give im the benefit of the doubt (2 weeks max) and then decide if he is worth your time.
Sincere